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Our ideas about the family are created by books, films and fairy tales. But alas, you rarely meet such relationships where marriage is a unity of souls, and not a continuous everyday life.
Look around, girls with bright eyes, beautifully dressed and incredibly attractive, turn under the influence of family ties into ... a tortured, tired housewife who is trying to achieve something in life.
Not all of course, but the vast majority.
Fitness, travel, training.
Even with children, unmarried people look attractive and energetic. They manage to be both a mother and a boss and a scientist.
Why is this happening? Women respond in the same way:
When we first started dating, he gave flowers, looked after me and I wanted to look like, there was a lot of energy. He rushed to help me from the other side of the world.
And now? Where are the gifts, compliments? Yes, and clean up wash after him. It's easier with a pet. We have to put up with the fact that it turns out that he does not like to travel and he reads the wrong books and in general, he is a different person.
Well, if he changed, no! He was never the same as he pretended to be to me at first. It was only a mask to get me to be his wife.
Also what, the problem leaves in the man? Of course not! If you don't like it, can you get a divorce? But they hold on, only to have a treasured ring on their finger, instead of looking for a truly loved one.
Remember! A happy family is not a status or a ring on your finger, but a person who cares about you, with whom YOU feel good and pleasant, with whom you share your happy life!